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International Day of The Boy-Child: Sexual Abuse Against Boys is More Prevalent Than We Know

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On this International Day of the Boy Child, it is important to draw attention to a pressing issue that warrants immediate action: sexual abuse against boys. Global statistics reveals that approximately 1 in 6 boys worldwide experience some form of sexual abuse before adulthood. Regrettably, these figures likely underestimate the true scope of the problem due to stigma, shame, and societal disbelief.

One of the most troubling aspects of this crisis is the neglect of sexual abuse against boys. Survivors frequently face scepticism and blame, with their experiences dismissed due to harmful misconceptions. The horrifying reality is that some believe if a boy experiences an erection during abuse, or actively participated in the act, somehow implies consent or enjoyment, perpetuating a culture of silence and shame, leaving survivors feeling isolated and invalidated.

It is important to emphasize that abuse perpetrated against boys below the age of consent constitutes rape, regardless of whether they actively participated in the act. The age of consent varies globally but typically ranges from 16 to 18 years old. Any sexual activity with a child below the age of consent is a violation of their rights and is a criminal offence.

The long-term effect of sexual abuse on boys are profound, extending beyond immediate trauma. Male survivors often suffer psychological and emotional challenges, including depression, anxiety, PTSD, and difficulties in forming healthy relationships. The impact of abuse can persist into adulthood, impacting self-esteem, ability to trust others, and overall well-being.

It is clear that urgent action is needed to address this crisis and safeguard the rights of the boy child. We must advocate for policies that prioritize the well-being of boys and establish social support centres that offer specialized services exclusive to male survivors of sexual abuse. These centers would provide a nurturing environment for boys to access the care and support needed for recovery.

It is critical to also acknowledge that women can abuse and rape boys. No survivor should be overlooked or dismissed based on the gender of their abuser and punishment for female perpetrators of abuse against boys must be enforced and taken seriously, just as it is for male perpetrators. All survivors deserve justice and support, regardless of the gender of their abuser. This equitable approach ensures that survivors are not further victimized by societal biases and that perpetrators are held accountable for their actions, irrespective of their gender.

We must challenge the harmful stereotypes and attitudes that perpetuate the stigma surrounding boy-child sexual abuse. Fellow men, in particular, have a responsibility to stand in solidarity with survivors and create a culture of empathy and support. It is time to put an end to the mockery and derision faced by boys and men who speak up about their experiences as survivors of sexual abuse.

Policy alone is not enough. Parents play a crucial role in protecting their sons from abuse by fostering open communication, teaching boundaries, and empowering them to speak up. We must also educate boys about consent, healthy relationships, and their right to bodily autonomy, empowering them to recognize and resist abuse.

We must confront the crisis of sexual abuse against boys head-on, dismantling barriers that prevent male survivors from seeking help and speaking out. By advocating for gender-specific support services and fostering a culture of empathy and understanding, we can create a world where all boys and men receive the assistance they need to heal and thrive.

In conclusion, achieving gender equality in access to support services for male survivors of sexual abuse is a fundamental human right. As we commemorate the International Day of the Boy Child, let us reaffirm our commitment to ensuring that all individuals, regardless of gender, receive the support and assistance they need to heal and thrive.

Halima Layeni
Founder & Executive Director
Life After Abuse Foundation

About Halima Layeni

Halima Layeni is an incandescent advocate for men’s mental health, leading the charge as the Founder and Executive Director of Life After Abuse Foundation. Through her leadership, Halima is reshaping the global discourse surrounding mental health equity and gender equality with a specific emphasis on advancing men’s mental health on a global scale.

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Lagos cracks down on street begging, arrests 15 beggars

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The Lagos State Government on Friday arrested 15 street beggars during an enforcement exercise carried out in the Ikosi Ketu and Mile 12 areas.

Commissioner for Environment and Water Resources, Tokunbo Wahab, who confirmed the development via his X handle, said the operation was part of ongoing efforts to maintain public order and prevent the misuse of public spaces.

“Fifteen street beggars were apprehended this morning during our enforcement operations at Ikosi Ketu and Mile 12,” Wahab said. “This is part of our ongoing effort to maintain order, ensure safety, and protect public spaces from misuse.”

He added that the ministry would sustain its enforcement activities while working with relevant social welfare agencies to offer rehabilitation support where necessary.

“Lagos must remain safe, clean, and orderly for all who live and work here. Our resolve remains firm,” he stated.

Friday’s arrests follow a similar operation on Thursday, during which eight suspected phone snatchers were picked up on the Mile 2 pedestrian bridge by operatives of the Lagos State Environmental Sanitation Corps. The suspects were later sentenced to six months’ imprisonment.

The government says it will continue to intensify enforcement actions aimed at safeguarding public spaces and curbing street begging across the state.

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Lagos unveils plan to minimise Lekki-Ajah road disruption

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The Lagos State Government has assured residents and commuters that the planned rehabilitation of the Lekki–Ajah corridor will not result in heavy traffic disruption or prolonged gridlock.

In a statement issued on Friday, the government acknowledged growing public concerns, especially with the festive season approaching, but emphasised that the project has been strategically designed to maintain steady vehicular movement throughout the construction period.

According to the statement, the rehabilitation will be executed in “carefully planned phases,” with only selected portions of the road undergoing repairs at any given time. These sections, it said, have been deliberately chosen to ensure minimal impact on the main carriageway.

As part of its traffic management strategy, the state government is activating alternative routes and improving existing bypasses.

“Alternative routes are being opened and strengthened, including the Coastal Road and adjoining service lanes, to provide smoother diversions where necessary,” the statement said.

To further ease congestion, major construction activities will be done at night, when traffic volume is lowest. The government confirmed that a night-shift schedule has been adopted for critical repair components.

On traffic control measures, the Lagos State Traffic Management Authority (LASTMA) will deploy officers in large numbers along the stretch to ensure free flow of movement and promptly address any bottlenecks that may arise.

The government reiterated that the rehabilitation project is aimed at delivering long-term improvements, not additional discomfort.

“The rehabilitation project intends to improve the Lekki–Ajah corridor, not to add discomfort to residents,” it said, urging the public to remain patient as the upgrades progress.

Reaffirming its commitment to infrastructural development, the statement added that the government will continue to engage with stakeholders and provide updates as work advances.

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FG vows to end frequent power grid collapses

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The Minister of Power, Adebayo Adelabu, says the Federal Government is intensifying efforts to halt frequent national grid collapses and improve the reliability of electricity supply across the country.

Adelabu, represented by the Permanent Secretary of the Ministry, Alh. Muhammadu Mamman, spoke in Uyo, Akwa Ibom State, on Friday during the maiden retreat of the Nigerian Independent System Operator (NISO) themed “NISO on the Move.”

He said President Bola Tinubu’s administration began implementing reforms from inception to ensure grid stability and reduce persistent power outages.

According to him, the establishment of NISO is one of the new approaches adopted by the government to address long-standing structural challenges in the power sector. Nigeria has suffered repeated grid collapses due to ageing infrastructure, poor maintenance, inadequate funding, and vandalism, leading to widespread blackouts and increased reliance on generators by households and businesses.

“Since the commencement of this administration, things have been done differently,” Adelabu said. “The creation of NISO is part of government’s efforts to stabilise the grid, reduce outages, and ensure every Nigerian has access to electricity. This retreat provides an avenue for engagement and improved coordination.”

Chairman of NISO’s Board of Directors, Dr. Adesegun Akin-Olugbade, praised the agency’s staff, noting that their dedication enabled the successful synchronisation of the Nigerian power grid with the West African Power Pool (WAPP).

He described the achievement—four hours of uninterrupted unified frequency across Nigeria, Niger, parts of Benin, Togo, and extending to Mauritania—as a milestone once considered impossible.

Managing Director of NISO, Abdul Mohammed, explained that the agency was created to support government reforms by attracting private investment and enhancing efficiency in the power market. He lamented that despite huge investments, the sector still suffers because power infrastructure requires far more funding than has been committed over the years.

“The power business is extremely capital-intensive,” Mohammed said. “We haven’t spent as much as needed to make the grid fully reliable. NISO is here to complement government efforts by drawing private-sector investment and optimising existing resources.”

Akwa Ibom State Governor, Umo Eno, represented by Commissioner for Power, Iniobong Robson, commended NISO for its discipline and clarity of purpose, noting that the agency had recorded impressive progress since its establishment.

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