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Two Sides Of A Coin, By Emeka Monye

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Earlier this week, I read a piece by one Sunny Igboanugo faulting Nigeria’s football international, Victor Oshimhen after the latter reacted to how one of his childhood friends failed to show appreciation for a financial assistance of five thousand United Kingdom pounds.

Part of the statement reads: “Victor Osimhen: “I used to send money to one of my childhood friends but one day he told me about a business he wants to start and needed financial support.

I sent him €5k but he didn’t appreciate it and even told me he read on the news that I earned 1 million euros every week and he was expecting like €50k to start up this business.

I was so mad that I wanted to reverse the transaction but I couldn’t. That money €5k can only buy a pair of shoes in Europe but in Nigeria, it’s a lot of money.

Nobody sent me 1 dollar before I came to Europe, I hustle day and night, I sold bottled water on the street. People should learn to appreciate whatever they get as gifts not have this sense of entitlement “.

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Osimhen, in his statement, had complained how ungrateful his supposed childhood friend was after the transfer of such a huge sum, by Nigeria standard, to his account, describing such an act as unbearing and unbecoming.

He went in to narrate how he sold bottled water on the streets to etch a living for himself, yet not a few people will identify with such struggles.

There are many Osimhens on the streets, struggling day and night to break the clouds of poverty and let the rains of wealth shower upon them, yet most of these people who feel entitled, will never see them but when the sunshine of wealth begins to smile on them, they surface from nowhere, claiming entitlement.

That’s the reality and it is stark.Osimhen, to me personally, has done well with his generosity.

He owes no one an explanation about how he spends his funds since he works for it and therefore can decide how he spends it, to whom he wants to give it and how much he desires release for his generosity to individuals and charity organisations.

For God’s sake, people who are quick to thinking that those who have made it financially are obligated to assist them, should begin to have a rethink, they should know that there is a difference between obligation and right, favour and privileges, etc. and when one continually receives from a benefactor is not a justification for abuse.

Such beneficiary should understand that there are other bills to be settled by the benefactor.

Infact, the only people one is obligated to collect financial support from are your parents, not even your siblings, and when your friends support you with some financial assistance, it is favour extended and a privilege you enjoy and not a right or their obligation.

Back to Igboanugo’s piece. In it he tried to compare his circumstance with that of Osimhen’s, resonating his experience with his childhood friend with whom he shared almost everything, how he helped him in his trying days and how the friend too paid him back when the side of the coin changed.

Kudos to him, he is a good man no doubt. But sir, I disagree with you on this generous gesture. Igboanuga should know that he is Igboanugo and Osimhen is Oshimhen.

Five thousand pounds is not a small sum to start a business in the Nigerian context. When translated into the Nigerian currency, at the present exchange rate value of two thousand Naira to a pound, it is ten million Naira.

Both of them are of two different personalities with different values, beliefs, characters, upbringing and different focus and ambition.

Besides, both circumstances are contextual. Igboanugo’s standards of extending a helping hand to a friend are not benchmarks to judge whether someone’s actions or inactions towards childhood friends, are right or wrong, perhaps they are not universally acknowledged.

Osimhem knows where it hurts him, in terms of the number of hangers-on on his pay roll, who on a daily, weekly and monthly basis solicit for financial assistance from him..

One thing we were not told is how much this dude has benefitted from Osimhen in his daily interactions, including gifts, cash, connections, etc. It is true that as humans, our emotions can always make us think that true friendship should always be judged by pecuniary rewards.

This is a fallacy. Osimhen may have gotten him connected, that we don’t know and that we should leave for history to judge.

Igboanugo’s piece also reflects the entitlement mentality that pervades our socio-economic and cultural circles.

Everyone feels entitled to successful people’s wealth, even when we know such is unjustifiable.

Igboanugo should know that if Osimhen continues with his generosity of taking care of hangers-on, sooner or later he will have nothing left for his future.

History is replete with super stars who because they wanted to satisfy the whims and caprices of their beneficiaries, ended up bankrupt.

The world is full of executive beggars, people who don’t want to “hussle” and make a living for themselves, rather depend on the benevolence of hardworking men who daily sacrifice present comfort for their future gains.

Five thousand pounds is not a small sum to start a business in the Nigerian context. When translated into the Nigerian currency, at the present exchange rate value of two thousand Naira to a pound, it is ten million Naira.

If the childhood is prudent enough and knows how to manage funds, and maybe himself, such sum is enough to kick start his business and make him live the life of his dreams.

▪︎Emeka Monye Is A Journalist And Works With ARISE NEWS

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One Million Teachers (1MT) Sparks National Policy Conversation with Transformative Education Model

Let There Be Teachers” Conference is expected to gather over 60,000 teachers—the largest congregation of educators ever on African soil.

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At a time when Nigeria’s education system faces unprecedented challenges, 1 Million Teachers (1MT) is offering not just hope—but a proven, homegrown solution.

With an ambitious vision to train and empower one million teachers across underserved communities, 1MT is redefining how education can transform society by placing teachers at the heart of national development.

Rooted in the belief that empowered teachers are the foundation of any thriving society, 1MT’s model has already reached over 100,000 educators across Africa. Its bold target?

One million teachers within five years—creating a ripple effect that will impact millions of learners and entire communities.

A Multi-Pronged Strategy Anchored in Innovation 1MT’s growth is built on five core pillars:

• Blended Learning: A hybrid training model combining online courses with offline community hubs for maximum reach.

• Gamified Teacher Development: The 1MT Blackbelt Program motivates teachers to grow through a merit-based, badge-earning system.

• Community Mentorship: Graduates become mentors, creating self-reinforcing networks of leadership and support.

• Strategic Global Partnerships: Collaborations with institutions like Queen’s University, HP, and Girl Rising extend 1MT’s footprint and credibility.

• Anchor Schools: Designated excellence hubs that serve as real-world laboratories for pedagogy and innovation.

The 1MT Village: Turning Vision into Tangible ChangeMore than just a campus, the 312-acre 1MT Village is a living, breathing demonstration of what happens when visionary thinking meets localised, Afrocentric action.

The Village serves as the “flywheel” of the 1MT mission—its engine room and proving ground.

• A Talent Pipeline: It houses the Centre for Teaching Excellence, Blackbelt educator residencies, the Green School, and a vocational institute—all designed to nurture future education leaders.

• A Regenerative Revenue Model: With businesses in agriculture, tourism, and cultural enterprise, the Village funds its growth sustainably.

• A Magnet for Global Collaboration: Donors, researchers, government officials, and major brands like HP and Mastercard Foundation are drawn to its tangible impact.

• A Policy Laboratory: The Village tests and demonstrates education reforms—from curriculum co-creation to budget simulations—grounded in local realities and teacher leadership.

As Nigeria seeks answers to its educational crisis, 1 Million Teachers are not waiting for change.

Let There Be Teachers’ Conference:

National Advocacy on a Global Stage Slated for September 20, 2025, at Tafawa Balewa Square, Lagos, the “Let There Be Teachers” Conference is expected to gather over 60,000 teachers—the largest congregation of educators ever on African soil.

Aiming for a Guinness World Record, the event is more than symbolic; it’s strategic.

The conference will spotlight the 1MT Blackbelt Graduation—a celebration of master educators trained through the 1MT model—and push for policy reforms including:

• Teacher-led education ministries.• Increased education funding

• Higher entry standards for teacher colleges

• Curriculum design co-owned by teachers.

• Official recognition of October 5 (World Teachers’ Day) as a national holiday.

One Movement, Many Voices

The synergy of 1MT, the Village, and the Conference is no accident. Together, they form a powerful ecosystem:

• 1MT is the heart—training teachers with world-class tools.

• The Village is the body—housing the mission in a living curriculum.

The Conference is the voice—speaking truth to power and the world.

As Nigeria seeks answers to its educational crisis, 1 Million Teachers are not waiting for change.

It is building it—acre by acre, teacher by teacher, voice by voice.Let there be teachers. Let them breathe. Let them lead.

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Who Will Bell The Cat? By Emeka Monye

Whether we belong to one religious group, political party or ethnicity is inconsequential because the harsh economy is hitting hard on everyone.

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The phrase “Who will bell the cat?” originates from a medieval fable about mice who decided to put a bell on a cat to warn them of its approach.

However, they realize that the difficult part is finding a volunteer to actually bell the cat.

The story is a classic fable that teaches a valuable lesson about courage, responsibility, and the challenges of implementing a good idea.

In modern usage, the phrase is often used metaphorically to ask who will take bold action or assume responsibility for a difficult or risky task.

In the story, a group of mice gather to discuss ways to protect themselves from a sly cat that has been terrorizing them.

One clever mouse suggests attaching a bell to the cat’s neck, so the mice can hear it coming and scurry to safety.

The plan seems brilliant, but when the mice are asked who will actually bell the cat, no one volunteers.

Here lies the challenge, everyone was scared of being the victim. The mice realize that it’s easy to propose a plan, but much harder to put it into action, especially when it involves risk.

This fable highlights the importance of considering the practicalities and potential consequences of a plan, as well as the need for courage and willingness to take action.

This is the reality we have found ourselves in modern day Nigeria.

Everyone is complaining, complaining and lamenting about the harsh economic and political disequilibrium, yet no one is bold enough or has summoned the gut to take charge and offer a real solution to the present socio-economic quagmire.

Every day on various social media, the ranting is hitting the high heavens, ceilings are being shattered and walls are being broken by people, mostly the common man, about the state of affairs in the country.

Unfortunately, and like the proverbial mice, no one seems to have summoned the courage to face the Intimidators of the large chunk of the people.

Many of those caught in this web of animal oppression have been divided along fault lines, including politics, tribe, ethnicity and worst of all, religion.

Whether we belong to one religious group, political party or ethnicity is inconsequential because the harsh economy is hitting hard on everyone.

Everyone is complaining, complaining and lamenting about the harsh economic and political disequilibrium, yet no one is bold enough or has summoned the gut to take charge and offer a real solution to the present socio-economic quagmire.

People are on a daily basis dropping dead, either by committing suicide or accidental, because they cannot afford the basic needs of life such as food.

While the political leaders have been fingered as the architect of this present economic circumstance, the reality existing among the followers who in this context can be likened to the mice, is that most of them have not been able to summon the courage to take action.

At best what we hear is false courage on social media, people hiding under pseudonyms to call on unsuspecting and naive Nigerians to go out and cause mayhem, yet these same faceless groups of people oftentimes turn around to betray the people’s trust.

And When groups or individuals in positions of power prioritize their own interests over the trust placed on them, it can lead to feelings of betrayal and disillusionment.

This phenomenon can be seen in various contexts, including politics, business, and social movements.

When leaders or representatives fail to uphold their responsibilities or act with integrity, it can erode trust and undermine the relationships between those in power and the people they serve.

To mitigate these risks, it’s essential to establish robust systems of accountability, transparency, and checks and balances.

This can help ensure that those in power act in the best interests of the people they serve and not make them live like the proverbial MICE seeking for a VOLUNTEER to bell the CAT

Emeka Monye Is A Journalist And Works With ARISE NEWS

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Macron Got Slapped And the World Laughed, This is Why Men Don’t Report Abuse, By Halima Layeni

If the roles were reversed, if President Macron had slapped or pushed Brigitte Macron, there would be protests.

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Earlier today, a clip surfaced online showing French President Emmanuel Macron being pushed on the cheek by his wife, Brigitte Macron.

What should have sparked outrage, concern, and deep conversations around domestic violence was instead reduced to meme fodder and crude jokes.

The reaction has been as swift as it has been disturbing: mockery, laughter, judgment, and the ever familiar chorus of

“That’s what he gets for marrying his teacher.”And just like that, a moment that should have highlighted a very real issue, domestic violence against men, was drowned in ridicule. No hashtags. No public outcry.

No feminist organizations stepping forward. No nonprofit issuing a statement. Just silence. Deafening silence.Abuse is abuse, regardless of the gender of the perpetrator or the victim.

If the roles were reversed, if President Macron had slapped or pushed Brigitte Macron, there would be protests.

There would be hashtags. There would be fire and fury from advocacy groups.

The world would come to a standstill demanding accountability and protection for women, and rightly so.

But when it is a man, a world leader no less, experiencing what can only be described as a moment of public humiliation and physical aggression, the same voices fall silent.

Why? Because society has normalized the idea that men are too strong to be victims.

That their pain is comical. That their abuse is somehow deserved. And so, they suffer not just in silence but in isolation and shame.

President Macron has long been the subject of public scrutiny because of his marriage.

This age gap, had the roles been reversed, would be celebrated as empowerment or love defying the odds. But for him, it is used as a weapon to justify abuse.

And now, when a moment of violence occurs, it is brushed off with a laugh, as if his choices have made him unworthy of dignity or protection.

This is the very heart of the crisis.

Men continue to die in silence because the world refuses to see them as victims. They are mocked when they cry out. They are told to “man up” when they break down.

They are dismissed when they seek help. This stigma is not only cruel; it is deadly. Because behind the jokes are real men, fathers, brothers, sons, husbands, who endure violence every day with no one to fight for them, no one to believe them, and no safe space to heal.

Domestic violence affects men in ways that are deeply traumatic but rarely acknowledged.

Male victims often experience depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress disorder, and suicidal ideation.

They are less likely to report abuse due to fear of not being believed or being seen as weak.

Many have nowhere to go. There are far fewer shelters for men, far fewer support systems, and almost no targeted campaigns offering help.

Men are suffering, and they are doing so alone.We need more men’s initiatives, more safe houses, more trained professionals who understand the psychological and emotional toll of abuse on men.

We need funding for shelters that serve male survivors, just as we fund shelters for women. These are not competing needs.

They are shared needs. Human needs.Mainstream media must rise above the culture of mockery and begin to treat violence against men as the serious issue it is.

This is not a laughing matter. When men are assaulted, their experiences should not become viral punchlines.

They should become urgent stories, stories that call us to confront our biases and open our eyes to the full scope of domestic abuse.

Governments also have a role to play. Policy must reflect the reality that domestic violence affects all genders.

This is not a laughing matter. When men are assaulted, their experiences should not become viral punchlines

Funding for prevention, shelters, legal aid, and trauma support should be inclusive.

It is unjust to pour millions into protecting women while completely overlooking the pain of men.

Protection should never be selective. Support should never be conditional.

If a government truly cares about the safety and mental health of its citizens, then male victims of abuse must be seen, heard, and supported with the same energy and investment.

President Macron’s case was domestic violence on full display, and it is not acceptable.

The world watched it happen. And the world laughed.

But one day, maybe not today, we must ask ourselves what kind of society we are building, one where men’s suffering is the punchline, or one where every victim matters.

It is time we stop treating abuse as a gendered issue and start treating it as a human one.

Because until we do, men will keep dying in silence, while the world keeps laughing.

Halima Layeni Men’s Mental Health Advocate Executive Director Life After Abuse Foundation

halimalayeni@gmail.com

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