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OPEN LETTER: No Father’s Day Recognition or Celebration: United Nation’s Systemic Gender Bias Against Men

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Dear United Nations,

I write to you today with a sense of outrage, disappointment, and frustration. Despite your lofty pledges to achieve a just and equal world, you have consistently ignored days dedicated to celebrating men. This blatant disregard for half of the global population is a stark reminder of the systemic gender bias that pervades your institution.

You proudly proclaim your commitment to gender equality, yet you hypocritically ignore the unseen sacrifices of fathers, husbands, and sons. You claim to champion the rights of the marginalized, but men are seemingly invisible to you. Your silence is deafening. It perpetuates a harmful narrative that men are not worthy of recognition or celebration. This not only harms men but also has far-reaching consequences for families, communities, and society as a whole.

You celebrate numerous days dedicated to women, including:

  • International Women’s Day (March 8)
  • International Girls’ Day (October 11)
  • International Day of the Girl Child (October 11)
  • Women’s History Month (March)
  • International Women’s Day of Peace and Disarmament (May 24)

These celebrations are important and necessary, but they also highlight the stark contrast in recognition and celebration of men. There are no UN-recognized days dedicated to celebrating men or boys, a disparity that perpetuates harmful gender stereotypes and discrimination.

This omission is not only a slight against men but also has far-reaching consequences for society. It perpetuates a narrative that men are not equally valuable or important, contributing to systemic gender bias and discrimination. It reinforces harmful gender stereotypes, limiting men’s ability to express emotions, seek help, and pursue non-traditional roles. It also neglects the unique challenges men face, such as higher rates of suicide, homelessness, and incarceration.

I demand accountability from the United Nations. It is time for you to acknowledge the importance of celebrating men and their contributions. It is time for you to recognize the value of fathers, the impact of positive male role models, and the sacrifices men make for their families and communities.

Your failure to act will have far-reaching consequences. It will perpetuate a world where men are marginalized, boys are disenfranchised, and families suffer. It will undermine your credibility and legitimacy. It will show the world that your commitments to gender equality are nothing more than empty promises.

I expect a response and a plan of action to address this issue. The world is watching, and men deserve better. It’s time for the United Nations to practice what it preaches and truly champion gender equality for all.

Halima Layeni

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Christmas Eve Explosion: One Too Many

We commiserate with the families of those who have lost their loved ones in this senseless attack. No one should lose their life while worshipping God.

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By Ini Ememobong
 

The news of an explosion in a mosque in Gamboru Market, Maiduguri is another sad reminder of the rising insecurity that has become the unfortunate contemporary reality that Nigerians face.

This is totally unacceptable; the irreducible minimum the government should offer its people is the protection of lives and property.

This administration has failed woefully in this respect and should rise to the occasion rather than resort to rhetoric and playing politics with security.
 
We commiserate with the families of those who have lost their loved ones in this senseless attack. No one should lose their life while worshipping God.

If these attacks on places of worship continue unchecked, they will not only violate the constitutional right of Nigerians to freely worship but will also create an atmosphere of fear that threatens the very fabric of our religious society.


We call on the Federal and State Governments to take immediate and practical steps to protect our citizens throughout this yuletide season and beyond.

Nigerians deserve more than empty promises and political rhetoric. We need concrete, actionable security strategies deployed on the ground.

This escalating insecurity has become unbearable and must be confronted with the urgency and seriousness it deserves
 
• Comrade Ini Ememobong is the
National Publicity Secretary,
People’s Democratic Party

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In Praise of Nigeria’s Quiet Heroes

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By Adebayo Ilupeju

I woke up this morning still carrying yesterday in my body. After covering about 320km on Lagos roads, mixed with the familiar December traffic that stretches patience to its limits, my nerves were clearly protesting.

That moment of exhaustion slowed my pace but quickened my thoughts.

It set my mind wandering toward the people who give their all so that others can live with a little more ease. Across Nigeria, there are men and women who show up every day, against all odds, to deliver the services they are employed to provide, and then some. They do not merely clock in and out.

They pour themselves into their work, often unseen, often uncelebrated.One such person is a hijabi sister at the LSETF Kosofe liaison office. She is the very picture of dedication.

Calm, patient, and relentless in her pursuit of solutions, she works tirelessly to ensure people are attended to and guided rightly. Speak to anyone who has crossed her path and the verdict is the same. She has a heart of gold and a rare sense of responsibility.

Then there is the charming LASTMA official of Radio Bus Stop fame. He has somehow mastered the art of turning chaos into calm.

While directing traffic, he dances, smiles, and exchanges courtesies with commuters, easing tension and restoring a sense of order. I have encountered him in other parts of the city as well, always consistent, always human, always reminding us that service does not have to be cold or harsh.

These are just two examples among thousands scattered across the country. From offices to roadsides, from hospitals to classrooms, there are countless golden hearts holding the system together with sheer commitment and goodwill. They are the quiet backbone of daily life.

They are unsung heroes.As a society, we may not always have grand rewards to offer, but recognition goes a long way. A sincere thank you. Public acknowledgment. Commendation letters. Small incentives. Structured reward systems that spotlight integrity, kindness, and excellence in service.

These gestures matter more than we often realize.When good work is seen, it grows. When dedication is appreciated, it spreads.

If we truly desire a better Nigeria, we must learn to celebrate those who are already doing right, especially those who continue to serve with grace when no one seems to be watching.

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When Public Outcry Actually Works: The Aide-de-Camp’s Promotion U-Turn

In a real democracy, it’s not just about making the right call the first time. It’s about having the guts to fix things when you get them wrong.

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•President Bola Tinubu

President Bola Tinubu just walked back the much-criticised promotion of his Aide-de-Camp (ADC) to Brigadier -General after Nigerians made a lot of noise about it.

For once, people’s voices cut through the usual government static. It’s proof that, at least sometimes, public outrage can actually change things in Nigeria.

This promotion wasn’t just a small slip-up. Inside the army and among civilians, folks were angry because the whole thing seemed to break the military’s own rules.

Normally, if you’re a Colonel, you sit tight for several years before anyone even thinks about making you a Brigadier General.

In this case, the ADC barely had a year in that seat. Plus, ADCs don’t usually get picked from such high ranks in the first place.

For once, people’s voices cut through the usual government static. It’s proof that, at least sometimes, public outrage can actually change things in Nigeria.

So, the whole thing looked fishy from the start. It’s not just about skipping a step—it points to a bigger issue: the president’s advisers dropped the ball.

And honestly, you can’t really separate Tinubu from the problem.

The ADC is glued to the president’s side, and a move like this would never fly without his say-so. Still, let’s be fair. Tinubu actually paid attention to the outcry.

He listened, changed his mind, and reversed a decision that most leaders would’ve stubbornly stuck with.

In a real democracy, it’s not just about making the right call the first time. It’s about having the guts to fix things when you get them wrong.

Strangely, though, some of the same people who slammed the promotion are now upset about the reversal, too. What do they want? Real accountability, or just something new to complain about?

In the end, this whole episode is a reminder to those in power: follow the rules, pick advisers who know what they’re doing, and take public criticism seriously—without flipping and flopping.

That’s how you rebuild trust, little by little, between leaders and the people they’re supposed to serve.

Adebayo Ilupeju, Lagos.

Caveat: The opinion expressed in this article is solely that of the author, and not that of Ohibaba.com

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